Are you a woman? Are you tired of being treated differently for that reason? Someone has been disrespectful to you lately?
The key: RESPECT YOURSELF.
The second suggestion: try to get to know people you sleep with. For your and their own sake.
People who say that they haven’t found the man or woman of their lives, or, to me, simply someone you feel very comfortable with (as if it was very simple…), probably:
1. Don’t know themselves.
2. Don’t accept their selfishness.
3. Don’t want to know and learn from the other person.
4. Don’t socialise much.
5. Are, unfortunately, very unlucky. (And I doubt it…)
But going back to sex, and despite all the problems that have come with a rigid and fake social moralisation of the topic, the truth is, both, men and women, like and enjoy sex.